What this audit solves
“Best AI girlfriend” usually mixes four jobs: text you return to, stills of a recurring character, voice or photos in the thread, and a large custom-bot catalog. One product should not win every column. Prompt tricks on Replika or Character.AI do not add a written adult policy ([status](/en/snippets/replika-nsfw-unlock-status/)).
Practical pick: for hosted adult chat, start with Candy AI. Mix-and-match stills → DreamGF (membership plus tokens). Phone catalog → CrushOn on the official website. Voice or in-chat media → Muah AI only when that is the job.
Affiliate disclosure: Dating Auditors may earn a commission if you join Candy AI, CrushOn, Muah AI, or DreamGF through links on this page. Policy, token, and access limits below come from each operator’s public pages and apply regardless of that relationship.
Evidence used
Checked 31 August 2026. This hub is a job map, not a lab of 15 apps, a 128k memory score, an SDXL/LoRA grade, or a voice-latency test. Older Dating Auditors copy invented those figures. They are not reused here.
- Candy Terms (17 August 2026) — free generally 5 messages. Blocked Content Policy (30 July 2026). Help: Premium Plus names unlimited text, Create My AI, Generate 18+ images, live audio, memory slots (20). Deep Mode is not a current documented setting. No native iOS/Android app.
- DreamGF pricing / Membership Policy — 100 tokens/month, 10 per image, 20 to create a companion. Mix-and-match face/body/clothing on the homepage. No video. A mix-and-match builder is not a verified face lock.
- CrushOn FAQ / install wiki — hidden content on the website; store apps claimed, listing unknown. Throwaway email unsupported.
- Muah General FAQ (posted 18 Dec 2023, marked updated 17 August 2026) — in-chat media; training use; archived memory; Ultra VIP / Early Access real-time calls need a phone number. Communications encrypted and stored — not an E2EE proof.
- Character.AI / Replika — pornographic / obscene user content outside the product. Detail: Replika & Character.AI status.
Adult-policy chatbot hub (different job): top uncensored AI chatbots. Privacy: safe NSFW AI chat.
What to check before you subscribe
Ignore vanity “immersion scores.” In a short trial, match the job:
- Chat you return to — hosted account, written adult policy, a named memory feature if continuity is why you pay. How well recall actually holds after days is unknown without your own check.
- Stills of the same character — a builder (face/body/clothing) beats a prompt lottery. Treat “same face next week” as the reason to pick a builder, not as a scored result.
- Voice / in-thread media — only if that is the product. Mic and face uploads identify you (multimodal privacy).
- Catalog on a phone — official website, not a filtered store “AI girlfriend.”
- Access / billing — store IAP ties Apple ID / Google account to the adult profile. Candy has no native app. CrushOn: website first.
Do not jailbreak a closed app to “unlock” a girlfriend. Switch products.
Platform comparison (girlfriend use-case)
Qualitative snapshot from operator documents — re-check the live page before you renew. Not a scored ranking.
| Platform | What public documents support | Best for | Limit |
|---|---|---|---|
| Candy AI | Sells NSFW chat. Premium Plus help lists unlimited text, 18+ images, 20 memory slots. Free generally 5 messages | Primary: hosted adult girlfriend chat | No Deep Mode. Cloud processing, not E2EE. Skip Voice Calls (beta) if you wanted text-only. Blocked Content Policy still applies |
| DreamGF | Mix-and-match stills; membership plus tokens | Alt: recurring-character images | 10 tokens/image, 100/month unless you buy packs. No video. Face consistency across a set is unknown. Perpetual User Content license |
| CrushOn | Character catalog; hidden content unlocked on the website | Phone + many custom bots | Official website, not PWA-only. Store listing unknown. FAQ forbids throwaway email. Not a privacy pick |
| Muah AI | Voice and media in the thread | Only when that is the job | Phone number for Ultra VIP / Early Access calls. Encrypted and stored. Not the default text girlfriend |
| Replika | 18+. ToS still prohibits pornographic user content. Pro sells romance, not an NSFW unlock | Sold romance companion | Do not jailbreak. Status |
| Character.AI | Pornographic content will not be supported | SFW character stories | Filter-bypass can ban. Not an adult girlfriend host |
| Janitor AI | Free JLLM plus optional proxy | Stay if you want model picking | Not a one-account girlfriend. Hosted alternatives |
Paradot, Chai, and similar app-store “spicy” brands are not reviewed on this hub.
1. Chat and memory (why she “resets”)
A hosted girlfriend that only keeps the live window will drop older turns. That is a product design issue, not a missing prompt.
What Candy documents: paid chat is unlimited; Premium Plus help names memory slots (20). What we do not have: a scored recall test, a RAG/vector architecture diagram, or proof that idle-week check-ins always retrieve Day-1 facts. Detail: AI girlfriend long-term memory.
Do not use throwaway email on CrushOn (FAQ: no password-reset path). Candy’s privacy notice treats email as mandatory.
2. Visuals (stills are a different product)
If the job is pictures of the same girlfriend, use a builder — then pay the token meter. DreamGF sells mix-and-match face, body, and clothing. It is not unmetered art, SDXL, LoRA lock, or a verified identity lock. Confirm checkout: homepage FAQ still uses Bronze/Silver/Gold/Diamond labels that the live pricing page does not.
Candy if chat is the product and 18+ images are extra (Premium Plus names Generate 18+ images). SoulGen if video or 1–2 credit character stills are why you are shopping (SoulGen alternatives). Category: NSFW stills, avatars, girlfriend visuals. Cloud identity mapping is a different URL: faceswap / identity — not a how-to.
3. Voice, free tier, and phones
Muah AI when voice notes or photos must appear in the conversation — Muah review, voice category. Candy also lists Voice Calls (beta); skip that if you wanted text. Latency in milliseconds is unknown here.
Free on Candy is a five-message cap (Terms), not a sourced “safety-wrapped free stack.” Adult policy is sold on Candy; it is forbidden on Character.AI and still prohibited as pornographic user content on Replika.
Mobile: prefer the official website or Add to Home Screen. CrushOn is the catalog path — not PWA-only (CrushOn on iOS & Android). Candy: browser / home screen, no native app. Store category: NSFW AI on phones.
4. Primary pick + focused alternatives
Primary: Candy AI
Default for an AI girlfriend you talk to for weeks: hosted adult chat, no user-pasted OpenRouter key, web access, Premium Plus help that names memory slots and 18+ images. Confirm deletion and payment options before you load sensitive history (Candy safety). Policy vs marketing: Is Candy uncensored?.
Do not choose Candy if you need a documented zero-log host, Deep Mode as a labeled switch, or stills as the main product.
CTA: Open Candy AI — hosted adult girlfriend chat, not Deep Mode
Alternative (visuals): DreamGF
When the deliverable is adult stills of a character you assemble. Token-metered. Use Candy for the relationship thread.
Also in the stack
- Muah AI — voice + in-thread media only.
- CrushOn — official website + character catalog on a phone.
Girlfriend hub map
| Topic | Guide |
|---|---|
| Adult-policy chatbots | Top uncensored AI chatbots |
| Long-term memory | AI girlfriend LTM |
| Voice | Voice chat AI review |
| NSFW stills, avatars, girlfriend visuals | Best NSFW AI image generator |
| SoulGen-class video / stills | SoulGen alternatives |
| Face identity tools | Cloud vs local identity |
| Muah product | Muah AI multimodal |
| Character hubs | Janitor AI alternatives |
| Locked mainstream apps | Replika NSFW status |
| Logs, deletion, trackers | Safe NSFW AI chat |
FAQ
Are AI girlfriend memory databases end-to-end encrypted?
Not on the hosted products in this hub. Long-term memory needs the server to read past turns. Traffic is usually protected in transit with HTTPS/TLS, which is not E2EE. Candy marketing E2EE lines conflict with its legal pages. Candy treats email as mandatory; CrushOn forbids throwaway email. See the privacy hub.
Why does an AI girlfriend start looping the same lines?
Looping is a common user complaint. We did not measure it and we do not have operator internals for “attention collapse.” It is not a reason to jailbreak Replika or Character.AI. If continuity is why you pay, Candy’s Premium Plus help names 20 memory slots — that is a feature label, not a scored anti-loop test.
Should I jailbreak Replika or Character.AI for an AI girlfriend?
No. Those products put pornographic content outside the contract. Workarounds do not add a written adult policy and can raise ban risk. Move to a host that sells adult RP — starting with Candy AI if you accept cloud processing.
How do I use an AI girlfriend on iPhone or Android?
Open the official website and add it to the home screen. Candy’s help documents no native app. CrushOn is the catalog path via the website — not PWA-only; its FAQ also claims store apps, and listing status is unknown. Do not use a throwaway email on CrushOn.